usually when someone down and we are the place that they find to talk about, we often give them so many advices or suggest various solutions to them right after they finished their story...and then, we often heard that they will replied by using the same words "it is easy to say but it is hard to do"..before this, i also not aware that these words have a lot of meaning, but when i had through so many things (not a good things for sure), i realized about the meaning of these words...they have deep meaning and different meaning for each person..and now, i tried to use these words right after i give my advices or suggestions..." i know it is easy for me to say, but it is hard for you to do because it is you who faced this, not me"...and i think that before we give our advices to them, we suppose to try to put ourselves in their shoes..means, we have to try to think what will we do and how does it feel when we were facing the same problem??? only then, we could give the rational advices..am i right?
again, easy to say but harder to do!
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